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Discussions on Rule 2 of the Seven Deadly Sins

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This is a continuation of a conversation that started here.

@Vendor-Lazarus While I welcome discussion on this rule as I would with any rule, let's just get something out of the way first.

Do you actually seriously want to pursue this, Vendor? Gauche did not get banned nor was he even infracted. You are basically arguing for the allowance to have images of kids in bikinis posted.

Furthermore, I'm not a damn prude. I'm a firm believer in flaunting it if you got it. I mean, I just bought a porn game for fuck's sake. So when I say that I don't think we should allow these kinds of images, you know I mean it.
 
I agree with Vendor. The relevant part of the rule states: "sexually suggestive attachments, images, videos or links to such of anyone under the age of 18 with partial clothing."

There's nothing sexually suggestive about it.
 
I do think that we should not allow sexually suggestive media of Real nude persons under 18.

This would not apply to simply nude Artworks. A lot of works of art includes depictions of the natural human form. Music albums, statues, paintings, etc. This wouldn't mean allowing nude depictions of "regular", run-of-the-mill, common youths under 18. The artwork must have some other connotation or notoriety/fame. I could even agree to you banning such depictions of fictional characters "under 18", although how the decision is made that they're 18 is going to be thorny (and could even apply to Real people). Just being fat or "curvy" doesn't mean they're over 18, and being "flat" doesn't mean they're under 18 either.. anyway, yes. That is how I see it.

I don't think we'll be in for a rush of people posting Artworks just on the fact that it's allowed. Maybe if we had more people and it had been a more contentious issue for while.
 
I agree with Vendor. The relevant part of the rule states: "sexually suggestive attachments, images, videos or links to such of anyone under the age of 18 with partial clothing."

There's nothing sexually suggestive about it.

I could argue that the bikini itself is sexually suggestive as there's no reason to wear a bikini instead of a one-piece besides showing off more of one's body. Which, again, IS totally fine and great, but when under 18, definitely no. (Although for people 16/17 years of age, teenagers are gonna teenager, and they're close to adulthood regardless. Even so though, I'd still discourage such.)

And honestly, I'm thinking about just getting rid of that "sexually suggestive" part and just doing more of a flat ban anyway. "Sexually suggestive" is a little too ambiguous there.

A lot of works of art includes depictions of the natural human form.

Yeah. Of adults. And even if art included a lot of nude kids, maybe it shouldn't. Wife-beating was also the norm back in the day. Just because it's traditional doesn't necessarily mean it's good.

Maybe if we had more people and it had been a more contentious issue for while.

Actually, this was an issue for a while on Sanctuary v1.0.

A child photo used for an album cover is pretty common

But not one in a bikini. (Or at least, I've never seen very much of them.) And even if it was common, bandwagon arguments are never good.
 
I could argue that the bikini itself is sexually suggestive as there's no reason to wear a bikini instead of a one-piece besides showing off more of one's body. Which, again, IS totally fine and great, but when under 18, definitely no. (Although for people 16/17 years of age, teenagers are gonna teenager, and they're close to adulthood regardless. Even so though, I'd still discourage such.)

And honestly, I'm thinking about just getting rid of that "sexually suggestive" part and just doing more of a flat ban anyway. "Sexually suggestive" is a little too ambiguous there.

There's no reason to even wear a bikini or a one-piece either. Nudity does not equal sexual. This would mean that you'd indeed ban images or links to images of Jesus nativity scene. Or famous album covers from Blind Faith, Led Zeppelin, and Nirvana. Or depictions of Cherubs. Statues of Ancient Greeks and Romans. Or journalistic pieces like Vietnam's Napalm Girl. If you get rid of sexually suggestive, then posting pics of the Cuties movie would be allowed, even though it's underage clothed girls being provocative. And similar stuff.

Yeah. Of adults. And even if art included a lot of nude kids, maybe it shouldn't. Wife-beating was also the norm back in the day. Just because it's traditional doesn't necessarily mean it's good.

Not just adults, and it's not just a bandwagon, as described in my above paragraphs. I think this is definitely a case of American Prudeness, although not as extreme. Europe is much more liberal in this case. I don't think it's that hard to separate fact and fiction, and artworks and not art.
 
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There's no reason to even wear a bikini or a one-piece either.

Huh? All swimwear has a purpose of it being better for swimming. Swimwear doesn't soak up nearly as much water, doesn't drag, and doesn't go transparent. My point simply was that you can already get all those practical benefits with a one-piece. A bikini is, instead, made to be not just practical though. It's made specifically to also be sexy.

Nudity does not equal sexual.

You're right, it doesn't necessarily equal sexual, but that's not actually what my point is. My point is, why do I specifically want to see a nude child or even a child in a bikini? Why would I EVER want to see that? Why would anyone? What good reason is there?

If you're a parent, you have to take care of the kid. You're gonna see them bare-ass naked. Has to happen. If you're a sibling, you're gonna see them naked just through being in the family. It's just gonna happen. If you're a doctor, you're gonna see it because you have to examine any health issues or potential issues so you can make a diagnosis and/or perform treatment. But none of those situations are public-facing.

This would mean that you'd indeed ban images or links to images of Jesus nativity scene.

If baby Jesus was naked? Yep. I'd ban that baby ass.

Or famous album covers from Blind Faith, Led Zeppelin, and Nirvana.

Maybe. I think such album covers depicting nude or scantily clad children are in extremely poor taste. So poor in fact, that I think it should probably be banned. Kids can never consent and their bodies shouldn't be exposed like such. Simple as that. Doing such for "art" or "expression" is bullshit as pedos could make the same exact argument when they make child pornography. "Oh, it's ART! Don't you like art???"

Or journalistic pieces like Vietnam's Napalm Girl.

Now THIS... That is actually a lot more tough to argue against. I might say that photos and videos depicting acts of war and war crimes should be public. But the thing is, this ALSO creates an in-road for sick fucks as well to start posting horrible war crime photos everywhere and just saying that it's "for historical purposes." That said though, I suppose I could just make a thread for such and put all the photos in there if needed.
 
Huh? All swimwear has a purpose of it being better for swimming. Swimwear doesn't soak up nearly as much water, doesn't drag, and doesn't go transparent. My point simply was that you can already get all those practical benefits with a one-piece. A bikini is, instead, made to be not just practical though. It's made specifically to also be sexy.

You're still arguing from the viewpoint that all nudity is sexual. Nudists at nude beaches, of all ages, don't wear swimwear.

You're right, it doesn't necessarily equal sexual, but that's not actually what my point is. My point is, why do I specifically want to see a nude child or even a child in a bikini? Why would I EVER want to see that? Why would anyone? What good reason is there?

If you're a parent, you have to take care of the kid. You're gonna see them bare-ass naked. Has to happen. If you're a sibling, you're gonna see them naked just through being in the family. It's just gonna happen. If you're a doctor, you're gonna see it because you have to examine any health issues or potential issues so you can make a diagnosis and/or perform treatment. But none of those situations are public-facing.

Why would it matter if they were nude, unless you or other people found them "sexy"? Who would want to see depictions of violence? Only violent people? We can't limit ourselves to only people taking offense or the most devious of us. Ultimately, the laws are there to prevent current and future harm. No harm to real people comes of these images.

If baby Jesus was naked? Yep. I'd ban that baby ass.

Maybe. I think such album covers depicting nude or scantily clad children are in extremely poor taste. So poor in fact, that I think it should probably be banned. Kids can never consent and their bodies shouldn't be exposed like such. Simple as that. Doing such for "art" or "expression" is bullshit as pedos could make the same exact argument when they make child pornography. "Oh, it's ART! Don't you like art???"

Just because they're in poor taste to you, doesn't mean they don't have artistic and philosophical value to others. Youth is often depicted with the meaning of innocence, virtue, spring, becoming, beginning, etc. Again, people can often separate faction from fiction and art from non-art quite easily.
 
You are complaining about this shit, and Nirvana's Nevermind album cover is just a baby straight up naked swimming in a pool. you can see the kids dick. This discussion is dumb as fuck, no one is sexualizing it.
 
You're still arguing from the viewpoint that all nudity is sexual.

No, no, no. I'm saying the bikini itself is sexual wear.

Nudists at nude beaches, of all ages, don't wear swimwear.

Maybe, but people under 18 shouldn't be allowed there much less participate in that in my opinion.

Why would it matter if they were nude

Because it contributes nothing valuable, intellectually and can only excite harmful passions in susceptible people.

Who would want to see depictions of violence?

That's a whole other can of worms. I'd be happy to talk about that in another thread if you'd like to open one for that.

No harm to real people comes of these images.

O rly? Take that album art I just redacted. Now that girl in that bikini is going to have her picture plastered in places on the internet and it can now never fully be removed from the public eye once released. She never consented to that (because she can't) and now it may follow her into her adult life in the future.

Youth is often depicted with the meaning of innocence, virtue, spring, becoming, beginning, etc.

All of which can be depicted quite easily actually without nudity or sexually suggestive clothing.

Again, people can often separate faction from fiction and art from non-art quite easily.

It's not about the people themselves (although it's a factor for certain damaged people) so much as the fact that this "art" contributes nothing of value and can only potentially harm.

You are complaining about this shit, and Nirvana's Nevermind album cover is just a baby straight up naked swimming in a pool. you can see the kids dick. This discussion is dumb as fuck, no one is sexualizing it.

Yeah, but why is Nirvana the sole arbiter of what is right and what is wrong? Would that album art have lost ANY of its impact if that baby had swim trunks? The art was about the indoctrination of money and consumerism into society, ingraining it into even children.
 
I could argue that the bikini itself is sexually suggestive as there's no reason to wear a bikini instead of a one-piece besides showing off more of one's body. Which, again, IS totally fine and great, but when under 18, definitely no. (Although for people 16/17 years of age, teenagers are gonna teenager, and they're close to adulthood regardless. Even so though, I'd still discourage such.)

No reason? How about to feel more of the sun or the water (or the sand, if you want), on one's body?

Are you going to say that minor boys shouldn't ever be pictured as being shirtless, because they're just "showing off their bodies!"?
Wear one of those swimming shirts, boys!

Is showing skin itself inherently sexually suggestive?
Midriff? Cleavage? Legs? Shoulders?

Bikinis are not inherently sexually suggestive.

My point is, why do I specifically want to see a nude child or even a child in a bikini? Why would I EVER want to see that? Why would anyone? What good reason is there?

It's album art. It's there to differentiate the album, and impart a certain emotion, perhaps fond memories of long ago, or a specific feeling. It's art.
 
Not to mention symbolism as well. I mean Album art have been doing that for years. And look at anime for example I mean sure some of it is shock value in the case of say cough Elfin Lied cough, to make a point or get a emotional response from the viewer. Or what about a show that made for the teenage demographic? Or the Simpson Movie that showed Bart streaking around Springfield?
 
You are complaining about this shit, and Nirvana's Nevermind album cover is just a baby straight up naked swimming in a pool. you can see the kids dick. This discussion is dumb as fuck, no one is sexualizing it.

Speaking of, according to the rules, such art is already accounted for:

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  • If something could be considered CP according to the above rules, but clearly isn't treated that way culturally, such as the album art for Nevermind by Nirvana, get mod approval first.

Culturally, a little girl in a neutral pose in a perfectly acceptable swimsuit in a perfectly acceptable context is clearly not treated as "pornographic" or "sexually suggestive"
 
No, no, no. I'm saying the bikini itself is sexual wear.

I see... So that same bikini on a cat would turn the cat into something ban-worthy and sexual.. to you? I know people have their different fetishes, but I think that's quite a different one from the norm. And to think they even allowed entire catalogues of underwear and swimwear to be posted in the mail to everyone, as junk mail!

Maybe, but people under 18 shouldn't be allowed there much less participate in that in my opinion.

But they are allowed there, and bad things don't happen every time they do. They act exactly like any other beach-goers. Just more naturally, without clothes.

Because it contributes nothing valuable, intellectually and can only excite harmful passions in susceptible people.

Did you just walk out from the 1850's? Or was it your previous religion that started then perhaps? I think it's showing through more than you know.

That's a whole other can of worms. I'd be happy to talk about that in another thread if you'd like to open one for that.

It really isn't. The reason it's constantly brought up as a comparison is because they're both similar in their treatment as opposites. Especially in the US vs EU where they're treated the other way around. You speak about harm or "inciting harmful actions in susceptible people". That's much more in violence's domain than sex (and not all in just simple clothing or nudity).

O rly? Take that album art I just redacted. Now that girl in that bikini is going to have her picture plastered in places on the internet and it can now never fully be removed from the public eye once released. She never consented to that (because she can't) and now it may follow her into her adult life in the future.

The same can be said of all the under 18 pictures plastered all over facebook and instragram and tiktok and social media in general. Not to mention TV and photographs. It doesn't generate the amount of harm you think, and it's been a thing since the beginning of the "modern age" (TV's). She's not nude or sexually suggestive. She's just wearing Modern Swimwear, like any other youth. Like you wore when you were her age.

All of which can be depicted quite easily actually without nudity or sexually suggestive clothing.

It's not about the people themselves (although it's a factor for certain damaged people) so much as the fact that this "art" contributes nothing of value and can only potentially harm.

Yeah, but why is Nirvana the sole arbiter of what is right and what is wrong? Would that album art have lost ANY of its impact if that baby had swim trunks? The art was about the indoctrination of money and consumerism into society, ingraining it into even children.

I think you have to face the fact that you're still a bit prudish, more than you yourself think, and that your supposed harm is overrated and compared in a bubble of itself. Not in the whole with violence for example. You don't think Nirvana should be the arbiter, and that's fine, but other people don't see why you should be the moral arbiter either. The judgement then falls upon laws, and in both the US and the EU, these pictures are legal. Not so much in the middle-east where an ancient book rules their way of life though.
 
No reason? How about to feel more of the sun or the water (or the sand, if you want), on one's body?

I suppose, but I think that's a pretty minor reason. (No pun intended.) And I think kids everywhere will be able to survive with just a one-piece until they grow to be an adult.

Are you going to say that minor boys shouldn't ever be pictured as being shirtless, because they're just "showing off their bodies!"?
Wear one of those swimming shirts, boys!

A boy's/man's torso isn't seen as too indecent in society. Whether that's logically consistent though... I dunno. I don't know what to think about that. That's probably some society nonsense there too though if I had to pick a side.

Is showing skin itself inherently sexually suggestive?

It depends on the context and also depends on if it's public-facing or not.

Not to mention symbolism as well.

There's a ton of different symbols out there. We don't need to expose minors just to get a specific one that could easily be conveyed by something else.

And look at anime for example I mean sure some of it is shock value in the case of say cough Elfin Lied cough, to make a point or get a emotional response from the viewer. Or what about a show that made for the teenage demographic? Or the Simpson Movie that showed Bart streaking around Springfield?

Nope. Wildly tasteless and should probably be banned. Japan has a NOTORIOUS problem with sexualization of minors too, and THAT is not just me either, so I don't think anime should be seen as this moral guide either.

Speaking of, according to the rules, such art is already accounted for:

Yes. And no mod approval was sought.

a little girl in a neutral pose in a perfectly acceptable swimsuit

Hard disagree. It's not a perfectly acceptable swimsuit. Not for a child. Bikinis should be for adults only, just like a lot of other things. Fucking hell, guys, I'm not asking kids to wear a damn burka here.

is clearly not treated as "pornographic" or "sexually suggestive"

Which is a problem with society. One of many.

So that same bikini on a cat would turn the cat into something ban-worthy and sexual.. to you?

No. Animals strut around "naked" all the time and trying to clothe every one of them is an utterly ridiculous proposition. And besides. Most of them have fur that covers them up. Hence, a bikini on a cat is not banned.

But they are allowed there, and bad things don't happen every time they do.

So? Why does a bad thing have to happen every time? Also, I disagree with the nudist concept anyway. Normalizing nudity, assuming we're just talking about adults, and making it something boring and standard is not a good idea. Nudity (with consenting adults) should be an exciting and intimate thing to see and clothing can actually be used to enhance one's natural sexuality anyway.

Did you just walk out from the 1850's?

Well, I certainly feel apart from a lot of humanity if that's what you're asking. lol Besides that, I still have some beliefs from my old LDS religion. I've taken what I think to be logical beliefs and have discarded the rest.

It really isn't. The reason it's constantly brought up as a comparison is because they're both similar in their treatment as opposites.

Once again, we're back to, "Well society says it's this way." I don't give a shit what society says (in this particular instance). I make my own damn opinions. Society has a LOT of wrong ideas. And that is partly why we're here at Sanctuary. To ask questions, debate, and to toss out stuff that doesn't make any sense but is held onto just because someone's daddy's daddy said it was ok. (Or not ok.)

So, with that, violence, I think, should not be lumped in with nudity/sexuality because they are two very different processes with different effects and societal considerations even if the two may share mental pleasure sometimes as a commonality. Eating ice cream also gives pleasure. Does that mean we should put ice cream on the same level, society wise, as the thrill of destruction and lump ice cream into violence too?

The same can be said of all the under 18 pictures plastered all over facebook and instragram and tiktok and social media in general.

And we all know now what a fucking great idea that was. (It wasn't.)

It doesn't generate the amount of harm you think,

It doesn't always need to generate an amount of harm every single time for something to be considered for a ban. Should we let toddlers play with burning hot stoves just because "Well, they don't hurt themselves EVERY time!"

I think you have to face the fact that you're still a bit prudish

Total nonsense. Just because I disagree with the over-exposure of minors on the internet, especially with sexually evocative clothing, doesn't make me a prude. There should be clear lines for ethics. This is one of them. We have the whole ENTIRE spectrum of human sexuality that we can indulge in. We have an entire sub-forum dedicated to allow people to post all the porn they want. But for some reason, you guys still wanna have it out with me because you think people should be able to post pictures of over-exposed children here. Really, guys? C'mon. Children can't consent and their bodies shouldn't be paraded around the internet anyway.

but other people don't see why you should be the moral arbiter either.

Well, uh... It's kinda my site, so I actually am. lol BUT... I still freely allow and encourage discussions, and you guys also know that you can actually persuade me to other points of view successfully if your points are logical and fair. That said, I'm not seeing that here at all. The best argument I've seen made so far was journalism.
 
Which is a problem with society. One of many.

You're putting your own opinion above the opinion of society. That's what it boils down to.
Culturally, according to society, a little girl wearing the swimsuit in question is not a problem. It's only you who thinks that it's sexually suggestive.
You say "society is wrong and I am right. All of you are wrong and I am right. This is sexually suggestive!"

Since you are the administrator, this is your right, but know that this rule is based on your opinion and your opinion only.
I don't think that this is a good foundation for a rule. Rules should not require people to guess what you might or might not consider suggestive.

The rule should be based on what society considers to be sexually suggestive, not what Arnox considers to be sexually suggestive.
 
Nope. Wildly tasteless and should probably be banned. Japan has a NOTORIOUS problem with sexualization of minors too, and THAT is not just me either, so I don't think anime should be seen as this moral guide either.
So if I wanted to post the most classic gag from the Simpsons I would have to get mod approval? Even though the joke has been around for years and people don’t take it seriously.

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No. Animals strut around "naked" all the time and trying to clothe every one of them is an utterly ridiculous proposition. And besides. Most of them have fur that covers them up. Hence, a bikini on a cat is not banned.

So the problem isn't the bikini, like you said initially, but what the bikini is on. A youth. She is fully clothed, as in covering up all the bits, so not nude. And she's certainly not being sexually suggestive. You simply don't want to see any pics of any kids anywhere at all? It seems you've become so defensive in this topic now that I'm not even sure how far back you've regressed. You know that animals can't consent to being put on media either right? So it's not a problem of consent really. It seems to be entirely on how you yourself actually sexualize youth in your own mind, depending on the amount of skin they show. That's the same mind-set that had and have women wearing clothing equal to burkas.. Just because they're fully clothed doesn't mean they aren't being abused either by the way.

What's the problem with having the rule be "we do not allow sexually suggestive media of Real nude persons under 18." ?

It lets you get rid of sexually suggestive nude media of under 18's. But allow nude art that's not sexually suggestive, and allows media of clothed under 18's being sexually suggestive. Perhaps nude should simply be removed and have it be "we do not allow sexually suggestive media of Real persons under 18.", because nude isn't the same as sexual, which you yourself have agreed with.
 
Just chiming in to say that it says more about you, Arnox, that you look at an innocuous image of a child in a bikini and then proceed to claim it's sexual.
 
OK, sorry I took so long.

Since we're at a major impasse here, I will lean towards keeping things unchanged until we can come to some sort of harmonious conclusion. I tell you hwat though, regardless of who's right here, I'm starting to really not like the ambiguity of "sexually suggestive". The problem here though is that you guys disagree on which side the rules should instead fall into. Specifically, more stringency or less.
 
No we're not.

We as in me vs. (apparently) the rest of the forum. Don't be pedantic.

"I want to censor legal images you can find literally anywhere"

"I want to stare at pictures of literally half-nude children." Also, once again, I have a very low opinion of bandwagon arguments. If I listened to what society says is correct and incorrect, half of you fuckers would be banned. lmao
 
"I want to stare at pictures of literally half-nude children." Also, once again, I have a very low opinion of bandwagon arguments. If I listened to what society says is correct and incorrect, half of you fuckers would be banned. lmao

Using weasel words like "stare" and "half-nude" is better than "bandwagoning"?

We don't stare just because it's there.. And the image you refer to has her clothed (covering all the "naughty bits").

The fact that it's legal, and you want to censor it, should make you think twice. Now, if it was illegal, say like "hate speech", and you'd allow it, then that's Free Speech.

Have you even considered how much stuff you'd have to censor to keep in line with your prudish "obscenity" rule?

Basically all Teen movies, and regular movies featuring beaches or pools or rebellious/angsty teens (Like Léon).

Many music album covers. Christian sites. Human anatomy sites. Medical sites. Clothing sites. Game and Anime sites (if you're still iffy about Real vs Fiction..). Facebook, instagram, imgur. Social media and image sites and video sites in general in fact. Art work sites. Various Documentaries. The list goes on.
 
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